Not Sure How I Feel

As my wife and I were reading the 40 Days devotional a few nights ago, a thought popped into my head. I wondered if this whole idea about small groups is a little biased. You see, I'm an extrovert, which means that I like having a whole lot of "friends," but to only get involved at what could best be called a shallow level with them. This extrovert-ness is a part of who I am, it's how I roll. So now, I'm supposed to cast aside that part of me that is integral to who I am so that I can invest and be invested in at a deep level. I struggle with that, to be honest. Could there not be a way for the extroverts among to be built up spiritually and to invest in each other that doesn't look like small groups and deep conversations? That is what I have been thinking.

But maybe, what is really at the core of the matter is that I really don't want people messing in my stuff. I know who I am, and there are times that I don't like that person. Why in the world would I want to get involved in doing life with someone else so that they can also know what a cruddy guy I can be? It's risky. It's scary. Maybe they'll find out who the man is behind the curtain and reject me or, worse yet, throw the curtain wide open for others to see. It's a gamble. But the fact of the matter is that God never promised that living in community would be easy or painless. Proverbs 27:17 tells us, "Iron sharpens iron, So one man sharpens another." Iron is sharpened without the influence of anything else. Rather, it is sharpened when it comes into violent contact with another piece of iron. If iron could feel pain, it would probably reject the proposal of being sharpened in much the same way that I reject the idea of deep community in my life. But regardless of my rejections, if I want to be and stay sharp, it's what I need.

I remember being in a small group while at seminary. I joined it when I was going through a difficult time from a failed relationship. That small group was life to me! I had no idea that I would get to the level of intimacy that I did and share the things I shared. It was scary, and risky, and a gamble. But when I took the risk, the rewards of growth and relationship far outweighed it. The risk is worth it. Now, I just need to keep telling myself that...

Fitz, Youth Pastor

What You See Is What You Give

We're about halfway through the 40 Days of Community, so let's pause for a moment, take a breath, and celebrate what God is doing in our midst.

The big news is the Blitz Day this past Saturday. Over 800 volunteers participated in a one-day service blitz to reach out to our community. Through random acts of kindness, community and neighborhood cleanup, assistance to other community agencies, winterization and repair of homes and other churches, the people of La Croix have reached out in love and made an impact in our communities. (By the way, a huge thanks to the team of folks who coordinated all of those projects and also to the team leaders who took extra responsibility at each site.)

It was truly a great day; but will a great day become a great change in the lives of our people and our church? 1 John 3:16-18 says, "This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers. If anyone has material possessions and sees his brother in need but has no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him? Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth."

Oftentimes, we don't share our time, talents and treasures with those in need because we don't see them. Our busy lives and attention to our own issues blind us to those who are in great need. My hope is that the Blitz Day, and the entire 40 Days of Community, has opened our eyes to the opportunities to love others through our actions. I pray that the people of La Croix continue to reach out in Christ-like love to those in need.

Rob Mehner

Spiritual Formation Pastor